Running Small Group Discussions
Students learn to lead a small group discussion by opening, tracking contributions, managing air time, and summarizing while keeping focus, adapt communication style and vocabulary to purpose, use active listening to track multiple contributions and reference previous speakers, give multi-part feedback constructively, repair a communication breakdown by naming their part, and respond to disagreement with curiosity before advocacy.
Lesson Overview
What students will be able to do after this lesson: Students will be able to lead a small group discussion using all four facilitation moves, adapt their communication style and feedback to the specific purpose of the interaction, and handle hard communication moments — breakdowns and disagreements — by owning their part and staying curious before advocating.
Skill segments at a glance:
| Segment | Segment name | Primary standards |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Running the Discussion | RS-COM-5-1 · RS-COM-5-3 |
| 2 | Purposeful Communication | RS-COM-5-2 · RS-COM-5-4 |
| 3 | Hard Moments | RS-COM-5-5 · RS-COM-5-6 |
Supporting standards reinforced:
| Code | Why it connects |
|---|---|
| RS-TMW-5-1 | Leading a small group discussion (5-1) builds the same facilitation and contribution-management skills as leading a team toward shared goals |
| SoA-EMP-5-1 | Responding to disagreement with curiosity (5-6) requires the same perspective-taking move as understanding multiple viewpoints simultaneously |
| RDM-PRB-5-2 | Genuine active listening (5-3) and staying curious in disagreement (5-6) are prerequisites for the collaborative problem-solving that generates real solutions |
Key Vocabulary
- Facilitation — the moves a discussion leader makes to keep a group conversation structured, balanced, and on track — not just talking the most, but managing how everyone contributes
- Air time — the share of speaking time each participant takes in a group discussion; a skilled facilitator balances it so no one dominates and no one disappears
- Communication breakdown — a moment when a message was misunderstood, misread, or landed differently than intended — something to repair, not just apologize for
- Curiosity before advocacy — the practice of asking questions to genuinely understand a disagreement before restating your own position
Materials
- Whiteboard or chart paper and markers (for board fixtures and contrast comparisons in each segment)
- Before the week begins: Post your unit anchor chart and I Can Statement where students can see them — you’ll reference both throughout the week.
- Optional: role cards for We Do group practice scenarios (facilitator, contributor, timekeeper)
How this lesson is structured: Each skill segment below has an I Do (teacher models the skill with a realistic scenario) and a We Do (class practices together with your guidance). Independent practice — the You Do — lives in the practice resources that go alongside this lesson.
What Students Need Before This Lesson
- What’s inside
- What students should already be able to do
- Helpful to have in place
- 5 quick set-ups before the I DoLeading vs. talking the most — the facilitation distinction · “Building on what you said” vs. starting fresh — what genuine referencing looks like · The difference between two-part and four-part feedback · Communication purpose drives style — not habit · Two distinctions for hard communication moments
- Rescue planIf students are significantly behind
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Introducing the Skill
- What’s inside
- Opening hook
- What we’re learning
- Why it matters
- Core sentence frameThe frame students use all week
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Running the Discussion
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsTextbook example: all four discussion leader moves in one sequence · Wrong version → fix: dominating vs. facilitating · Active listening + referencing: naming what was said before connecting a new point · Ordinary, non-conflict: running a smooth discussion in a positive context
- We do: 4 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Purposeful Communication
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsAdapting register: two purposes, two visibly different communication styles · Wrong version → fix: generic “polite” register for everything · Four-part feedback: all components in sequence · Wrong version → fix: missing the “how” and “why” from feedback
- We do: 4 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Hard Moments
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsTextbook repair: naming what went wrong, owning your part, proposing a clearer alternative · Wrong version → fix: blaming only vs. owning your part · Curiosity before advocacy: asking to understand before restating your position · Wrong version → fix: immediate counter-argument vs. genuine curiosity question
- We do: 4 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Closing the Week
- What’s inside
- 3 partner-share roundsOne for each segment, with the frame students say together
- Round 1 — Segment 1
- Round 2 — Segment 2
- Round 3 — Segment 3
This section opens when Grade 5 launches.
Practice for every skill segment
Each lesson comes with independent practice — the “you do” — for each of its 3 skill segments, in print and digital.
Printable practice
Ready-to-copy practice pages for each segment.
- View and print in your browser
- Answer keys for quick checking
Digital activities
Share one link — students open it on any device, and you see their answers.
- Works on Chromebooks, tablets and phones
- Students just type their name to start
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Relationship Skills resources for Grade 5, ready to use today.
