Noticing and Saying Thank You
Students learn to express specific thanks that names what someone did, name something they are genuinely grateful for and say why it matters, notice when someone is working hard or helping and tell them what they observed, contribute genuine and varied responses to a class gratitude routine, and tell a classmate one specific quality or action they appreciate about them.
Lesson Overview
What students will be able to do after this lesson: Students will be able to express specific thanks that names what someone did; name one thing they are genuinely grateful for and say why it matters to them; notice when someone is working hard or helping and tell them what they observed; contribute a genuine and varied response to a class gratitude routine; and tell a classmate or teacher one specific quality or action they appreciate about them.
Skill segments at a glance:
| Segment | Segment name | Primary standards |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Specific Thanks and Genuine Gratitude | SoA-GRT-2-1 · SoA-GRT-2-2 |
| 2 | Noticing and Practicing | SoA-GRT-2-3 · SoA-GRT-2-4 |
| 3 | Appreciation in Words | SoA-GRT-2-5 |
Supporting standards reinforced:
| Code | Why it connects |
|---|---|
| SoA-EMP-2-5 | Noticing a peer’s effort or work (L15) is the same observation skill that powers genuine gratitude — you can only say thanks for what you actually noticed |
| SoA-SRV-2-3 | Reflecting on how your kindness helped the recipient (L18) is the same outward-focus as genuine gratitude expression |
| RS-COM-2-5 | Giving specific positive feedback on someone’s work (L20) uses the same specific-noticing skill as SoA-GRT-2-5 |
Key Vocabulary
- Gratitude — Noticing and appreciating something good in your life or your day — a real observation, not a performance
- Specific thanks — A thank-you that names exactly what someone did — not just “thanks” but “thanks for [specific thing]”
- Genuine — Real, honest, based on something you actually noticed — not forced or automatic
- Appreciation — Recognizing the value of what someone did, contributed, or is — directed at something specific
- Gratitude practice — A regular habit of noticing and naming what you’re grateful for — not a one-time event
Materials
- Whiteboard or chart paper for I Do modeling and sentence frame anchor
- Sticky notes (for Segment 2 We Do — gratitude notes for the board or desks)
- A class gratitude routine (morning meeting, gratitude circle, appreciation sticky note board) — established before or during this week
- Before the week begins: Post your unit anchor chart and I Can Statement where students can see them — you’ll reference both throughout the week.
- — post all three segment frames before Day 1
How this lesson is structured: Each skill segment below has an I Do (teacher models the skill with a realistic scenario) and a We Do (class practices together with your guidance). Independent practice — the You Do — lives in the practice resources that go alongside this lesson.
What Students Need Before This Lesson
- What’s inside
- What students should already be able to do
- Helpful to have in place
- 4 quick set-ups before the I DoGratitude is noticing — not performing · Gratitude practice requires variation — not repetition · Specific thanks is a gift — not an obligation · Appreciation names a quality — not just an act
- Rescue planIf students are significantly behind
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Introducing the Skill
- What’s inside
- Opening hook
- What we’re learning
- Why it matters
- Core sentence frameThe frame students use all week
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Specific Thanks and Genuine Gratitude
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsSpecific thanks with a because-reason · Wrong version → fix (automatic thanks with no content) · Genuine gratitude for something specific in the day · Gratitude for something small and ordinary
- We do: 5 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
This section opens when Grade 2 launches.
Noticing and Practicing
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsNoticing and naming what you saw · Noticing help that went unasked for · Participating in a gratitude routine with a genuine, varied response · The wrong version: the default response
- We do: 5 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
This section opens when Grade 2 launches.
Appreciation in Words
- What’s inside
- I do: 4 teacher modelsSpecific quality appreciation · Wrong version → fix (vague appreciation vs. specific) · Appreciation for a skill or way of doing things · Sharing appreciation with a teacher or adult
- We do: 5 guided scenariosWith sentence frames, pacing notes and what to watch for
- Coaching in the momentWhat to say when students get stuck
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Closing the Week
- What’s inside
- 3 partner-share roundsOne for each segment, with the frame students say together
- Closing prompt
- Land the key idea
- Connect to daily life
- Optional — Quick check-in
This section opens when Grade 2 launches.
Practice for every skill segment
Each lesson comes with independent practice — the “you do” — for each of its 3 skill segments, in print and digital.
Printable practice
Ready-to-copy practice pages for each segment.
- View and print in your browser
- Answer keys for quick checking
Digital activities
Share one link — students open it on any device, and you see their answers.
- Works on Chromebooks, tablets and phones
- Students just type their name to start
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